Prematurity

First days

I’m exhausted.  Not surprising, but it is why I haven’t posted anything about his first days home.

Yesterday he had his first ped appointment.  He weighs 5 pounds 5.5 ounces.  And he was declared adorable.  And healthy.  He goes back again Thursday for a weight check.

The Durham County home visit nurse came yesterday, as well.  She was really nice.  She offered to come back Monday to do another weight check, so that I wouldn’t have to go back to the ped quite so many times.

Trying to balance nursing, bottles, and pumping is damn near impossible.  I totally totally get why most moms of preemies end up switching to formula or exclusively pumping.  If this was my first baby rodeo I would have gone that route already, I’m sure.

I got a bill from the ambulance ride from Regional to Duke. $700 to go five miles.  I’m annoyed.  Because potential abruption and rupture at 28 weeks pregnant seems like a pretty good reason to use an ambulance to get from one hospital to another (with a higher level NICU).  An my insurance says ambulance paid in full if medically necessary. I am hopeful I can get it straightened out.  But I bet they are going to charge me for Rowan’s transport, since his transport to Regional wasn’t medically necessary (and I doubt they will care that it opened up another bed in the higher level ICN at Duke).   I’m tired, and the last thing I want to do is have to call freaking BCBS.

Luckily this kid is really cute.  Even when he’s pooping at 3am.

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Rhiannon Giles

Rhiannon Giles is a freelance writer from Durham, North Carolina. She interweaves poignancy and humor to cover topics ranging from prematurity to parenting and mental health. Her work has been featured on sites such as The New York Times, Washington Post, Parents, Scary Mommy, McSweeney's, and HuffPost. You can find her being consistently inconsistent on her blog, Facebook, Twitter, or Instagram.

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